How to find your new BFF. http://adulting.tv/ep/027/
Did you really need to Do everything with your significant other? Is it really a sign of love if you can't stand to be apart?
The reality of the situation is that sometimes it's healthy to do things separate from your partner.
Another consideration is the fact that sometimes the relationship is over and you need to let go.
Both of these circumstances require that you overcome your anxiety related to confrontation or your worries about what would happen if the relationship ended. The end game should be a healthy relationship that both you and your partner fully enjoy.
Do you have a dream of getting fit? Exercise comes with the number of benefits. You can improve your mood, boost your energy, look better, and even live longer.
The good news is that exercise doesn’t have to mean beasting it up at the gym all the time.
You can start getting fit by doing things that you like to do, and by engaging in small amounts of exercise at a time.
Don’t sit around all the time feeling low energy and disappointed. I’m getting fit, you can change your outlook on life and be healthier.
Miranda, Harlan, and special guest John Rampton discuss having a positive attitude towards failure, and how failure is essential for ultimate success.
Avoid unnecessary drama in your life. The distractions can be harmful to your health. http://adulting.tv/ep/024/
Adulting.tv LIVE! welcomes special guest Matt Schulz from CreditCards.com to talk about how to choose your first credit card. Miranda, Harlan, and Matt explore why someone might want to apply for a credit card, what is needed before applying for a credit card, what types of credit cards are available, and what to expect once you have a credit card.
Credit cards aren’t for everyone, but if you think you’re ready to handle your spending responsibly or you’re a seasoned credit card user, watch the replay.
We have reached a scary point in political discourse: repeating something loudly makes it true.
Unfortunately, just asserting something at a high volume over and over again doesn’t actually make you right. And it’s certainly not civilized discourse.
Our society and form of government rely on an educated populace whose members recognize that compromise is important. It’s also important to engage in the system and use civility when discussing different viewpoints.
Right now, we are becoming increasingly divisive, and forgetting that we’re all in this together. We might have differing ideas of how to move forward, but that doesn’t mean that we need to be enemies. The all-or-nothing approach that has been taking over politics, not to mention the demonizing of anyone who disagrees, is a plague to our system.
It’s good to share your opinion. But it doesn’t mean you have to be rude about it.
One of the toughest things to do is to learn which things to say no to -- and which to say yes to. It's tempting to want to do all the things. However, chances are that you say yes to more than you should.
When you are bogged down by obligations, you reach the point where you need to say no, for your own sanity. Unfortunately, when you try to hard to do all the things, you might end up in a situation where you can't say yes to the opportunities you really want.
In order to avoid becoming overcome by all you need to do, it's important to understand what really matters to you. Narrow it down. Focus on the essentials, and then expand from there, only saying yes to the things that you really want to do. And if you need help figuring out what's most important, create a life map.
When making relationship goals, few of us decide we want to be with toxic people. However, there are times that we just sort of end up in these situations.
If you feel like your relationship is bring you down -- and it doesn't have to just be a romantic relationship -- you can get out of it.
As you look at your relationship goals, re-evaluate where you stand and how others influence your life. It might be time to ditch the toxic people in your life. It might even be time for you to realize that you have some of your own toxic behaviors that you should work on.
Many Millennials are putting off traditional life milestones like marriage, buying a home, and starting a family. Many Millennials have subscribed to the "you only live once" - YOLO.
Travel is a big deal for many young adults who want to experience life before responsibilities and age weigh them down. But do you risk running out of money later?
You don't have to give up experiences now. Plan ahead, and take steps to be responsible with your finances, and you can YOLO now, and still achieve financial freedom later.
Should you buy or rent? We talk a lot about the importance of homebuying as a life and money milestone. But do you really need to buy a home to be an adult?
We wade into the homebuying debate -- on the side of renting. Miranda has actually owned a home, and never wants to again. Harlan has never bought, and he's not sure he wants to deal with a mortgage.
Miranda and Harlan tackle the homebuying debate and look at why it seems like such a big deal, and talk about how you can rent forever and STILL be an adult.
After losing weight, the #2 New Year's resolution in 2015 was getting organized. There's a very good chance that the numbers are similar for this year. After all, who doesn't want to feel like they have a handle on life. Organization tends to help you feel like you are ready to face the world. Or at least tackle the day.
In this episode we talk about how to get organized like an ADULT. You'll learn practical tricks that can help you manage your time and your life more effectively -- and that will result in less stress.
Technology is great when you want to connect with others -- but it can also be an addictive distraction.
The truth is that we are wired to connect with people, and constantly playing games on our phones or using social media can actually make us feel worse. Plus, you think you're multi-tasking, but you're really not.
Do you have trouble finding calm and relaxing?
It's not always easy to relax -- especially since the harder you try, the worse it is.
If you want to relax, we've got some tips for you. It's important to take the time to relax and enjoy life. Your stress levels can impact your physical and mental health, your mood, and your relationships.
Slow down. Breathe deep. RELAX!
Are you ready to move into your own place? Chances are that your first place will be a little on the shabby side -- at least it should be if you want to say that you really did it right.
Before you move out, make sure you have an idea of what you're getting into. In this episode we talk about what you need to know when you get into your first place, from how to choose a location, how to make sure you have enough money, and what you need to look for in your lease. We'll even tackle the thorny issues related to roommates.
What's the meaning of life? The reality is that the answer is a little more complex than 42.
Join Harlan and Miranda as they explore the meaning of life -- and how you can bring your own meaning to your days.
This episode offers steps you can take to find your own purpose and begin moving forward to create a life that you enjoy and feel good about.
Could cheat days actually help you accomplish your goals?
We praise self-discipline a great deal, and even we acknowledge that sometimes you just have to suck it up and do what you need to do. However, there are times that cheating a little can help you accomplish your goals.
Before you decide that you can't have any fun, consider that adding cheat days to your routine could actually help you in the long run.
We're taught to fear being alone, but it's actually healthy adult behavior to enjoy some down time without others around.
However, there is a difference between being lonely and being alone. If you want to enjoy being alone, it's important to get to know yourself -- and find worthwhile activities to fill the hours.
In this episode we'll talk about how to learn to enjoy being alone, and how to balance that with the need for social interaction.
Are you a cheap holiday grinch?
As an adult, you need to realize that you have responsibilities to others. During the holidays, society expects you to give to others and tips a little extra. You don't want to be the cheap holiday grinch that others despise.
We take a look at giving, how to properly tip, and what it means to spread holiday cheer.
Too often, the holidays turn into a time of stress as we try to live up to expectations from family and friends.
While it's preferable to avoid a holiday showdown, sometimes it can't be avoided. In this episode, we talk about how to figure out what matters this holiday season, as well as how to set boundaries.
How much is too much this holiday season? And can you draw the line without it turning into a holiday showdown?
As a kid, the holidays are a time of fun. After all, you get presents, candy, and time off school. Holiday hijinks are a part of growing up.
Adults, though, need to learn how to change their view of the holidays. The things that were funny when you're a kid are no longer in force. Plus no one thinks it's fun to buy you presents anymore.
You can still enjoy the holiday season as an adult, but you do need to adjust your expectations.
As an adult, it's time to start thinking about money and the future. If you want build a secure future, investing is important.
It's scary to start investing, though. It can be intimidating to figure out which stocks to pick. Plus, how can you get started when you don't have a lot of money?
In this episode we talk about how you can start investing, no matter how little you have. We also share tips for choosing investments that are a little less risky, and can help you begin taking advantage of compound interest and building it up over time.
We all have days when we don't feel like doing anything. But that doesn't mean that we can just go back to bed. Adulting is sometimes about doing things you don't want to do -- just because it's the right thing to do.
We discuss some of the things that might be holding you back, as well as excuses you might be making. Learn to overcome your reluctance by understanding yourself and looking for ways to reward yourself be doing what you need to do.
Even if you aren't motivated, you can still get things done.